Exiting chaos is hard. I know because I have experienced chaos, observed others in chaos, and helped a lot of folks to exit their chaos. Your exit from any chaos is within reach. You have to stretch to complete your reach. Paralysis occurs when one is in chaos. It can shrink your reach and stop you from reaching the exit. My exit did not occur instantaneously. I did not eat a quarter pound of insight and courage to transform me in a few moments of time. The changes required digestion of lots of information from multiple sources to get me to integrate new information with my old DNA. This improved combination impacted my life, by presenting a new reality with a new decision making process. The light at the edge of your chaos forest that is your direction. Walk towards the light and find a road to travel to exit your chaos.