Divorce is not something that should be contemplated lightly as there are usually a lot of major adjustments to be made both for the two people directly involved in the process and for all the other connective elements within the framework of the marriage such as children and assets. Does it seem like you've tried everything in your power to figure it out, and yet, despite your best intentions, you're still plagued with: Not knowing even the basics Not understanding even where to start with ways to stay married Not knowing that you may need to change some things If this describes you, there are TWO things you should know... First, you are NOT alone It may seem like it sometimes, but divorce is far more common than you'd think. I ought to know, because I've helped dozen of people with the exact same problem..."