If you show him that you are honest, loyal, and trustworthy, and sexually responsible, then you will have the most powerful weapon to attract men. If you abuse your sexual power with many men it backfires on you. Most women realize this after they've had their " fun" when it's too late. Get your sense of value back for your sexuality. Sex may be fun and pleasurable don't forgot that it's the one gift that they can offer your husband, and that so many men place your value. Men place value on how pure we are.