We live in a time that many are frustrated with dating and the thought of meeting that person to share our life with is slim to none and as many are now taking on a mindset that we will never find the one. We change our focus of the dreams we had as children of living happily ever after so we introduce self-imposed thoughts, limitations and standards thinking that will help weed out the good from the bad. Not realizing we have narrowed our selection of available men and women many singles do not understand or have a clue that a relationship is built and developed on more than income, attraction, and standards. It has a foundation of spiritual understanding that becomes a beautiful work of art in which everybody will not appreciate the painting that you and your future mate represent. But it's only designed to be beautiful in the eyes of those who understand the beauty of the strokes, patterns and color combination as well as speak the language of what the painting represents.