Yes, there is an appointed time for everything. Nothing just happens. When the confusion and dust settles, you'd be left with a masterpiece that defines your purpose. I never just wanted someone I had 'chemistry' with. There is 'chemistry' with everyone you date, but everyone you date is not your soulmate. A soul partner doesn't fill a void, the soulmate compliments. You need visibility, a connection, and wholeness. Soul partners are not sought out but you have to be visible. That visibility is not the same as being too revealing, under-dressing or looking too thirsty. The Universe does not need your help assigning your mate. It has been said in the 'good book' that a man chooses his wife. Therefore, ladies, let him choose you. Be ready and respect his choice. He can see you and he can hear you. Be patient, be silent and you will know how to date this and not that.