A story of an African American boy named Anthony, growing up in a rural neighborhood in Winston Salem. NC. He experiences risky, sad, funny and interesting romances with different females in his life. As he begins to get older, advice comes from everywhere about dating and finding a mate. At first, his parents tried to guide him in the right direction. Then, cousins and brothers begin to educate him on the opposite sex. Later in Anthony's life, other people begin to get involve in his personal life. The one goal Anthony has, is for him to be happy and fun. While in the process of during this, maybe the good lord will shine on him and give him the right companion. During his final year of high school education, his mother informed him he must make an important decision on what he is going to do with his life. One thing he knows is he must turn his life around for his career and his love life. Anthony decides to join the military. Military has its ups and downs, but with his career he finds time to find a mate. He married fast. Only to find out that his wife cousin thinks he is too good for his wife. Then a turn of events occurs, which turns into cousin in love.