A collection of essays, tips, personal experience, and opinion to help you safely explore your BDSM fantasies online. Whether you just discovered online kink, tried unsuccessfully to connect with someone, or want to satisfy your curiosity, you will find useful information in its pages. "I.G. Frederick does what few other BDSM writers and practitioners have done, acknowledging that many find their way into kink online. This book offers vital guidance on how to sensibly and safely explore the issues and the landscape - virtually first, and then in the flesh." -- Remittance Girl, author of Gaijin and The Waiting Room