Wanting closeness does not have to mean living on edge. If you have ever felt calm one moment and then panicked the next - rereading messages, needing constant reassurance, over-explaining, or trying to control the distance between you and someone you care about - this book is for you. Closeness Without Clinging is a practical guide to building intimacy that is steady, respectful, and sustainable, even when uncertainty shows up. Lina Farrow translates attachment psychology into real-life skills you can use in the moments that matter. You will learn secure attachment skills for recognising attachment triggers, calming emotional regulation storms before they spill into your relationship, and practising self soothing that does not rely on someone else rescuing you. You will also learn how to ask for reassurance through direct communication that invites connection rather than pressure, how to set and respect relationship boundaries without shutting down, and how trust building happens through small actions and quick repair - not grand declarations. This book is for anyone navigating anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, or patterns that resemble codependency recovery in dating, long-term partnerships, friendships, or family ties. The goal is not to become unbothered; it is to become steadier. You will leave with a clear map for intimacy without anxiety: how to stay connected without losing yourself, and how to choose behaviours that create the kind of closeness you actually want.