"It is so easy to pass judgment on others, but before you do, climb aboard and travel the bumpy road from birth to adulthood with Kimberly DeShawn, from the sheltered foothills of rural Tennessee. Most of you will remember when your emotions began to bud and burst into bloom. The total emotional package was sent from our Creator and installed in each one of us. It is the female who carries the primary responsibility for governing these emotions. If she falls and succumbs to the pressure, she too, will bear the burden of consequence. She will walk the remainder of her life, marked with the indiscretion. While the male partner, often not even identified, sails through life unscathed. It is the "Mother to be," who must make the choice.