"Honesty" describes this powerful book. Androsiglio is scrupulously honest as a monk, psychotherapist and an alcoholic gay man married to a woman--he creates suffering and pain in every aspect of his life. Until Life's "coincidences" heal him. "Vincent found his deepest Self. For that is the Christ in us, our Buddha nature, or whatever they call it; names do not matter. Br. David Steindl-Rast OSB, for whose book "Deeper Than Words" H. H. The Dalai Lama wrote a foreword.