If you or a friend has a "problem with alcohol" this guide may help you to find out if it is alcoholism or if it is problem drinking. The two issues have a few similarities but have more differences. As the saying goes "it's hard to work on the problem if you don't know what the problem is." Helping the inndividual identify what the real issue is, then they are free to decide what remedy to use. In most cases if the consumption of alcohol is frequent it may be needed to enter yourself into a local detox center to safely withdraw from alcohol and any other drugs. Withdrawl can be dangerous and having medical supervision during this process can save your life or safe you from injury during the withdrawl process. If you discover that you may be alcoholic, the program of AA will make a huge difference in not only getting sober, but finding contented sobriety. After 38 in the Program of Alcoholics Anonymous, I am still in awe of the miracles I see. People who are so messed up when they first come into this program and totally change into a rational, even thinking human beings. This happens not by just going to meetings, that won't do it. It is only by fully immersing yourself into the 12 Steps that an incredible metamorphosis happens. Trembling despairing people turn into people you would be pleased to know. Even to call them a friend, when a few short months before you wouldn't have allowed them into your home. By being honest with yourself, working to live on a spiritual basis and getting an open mind for new approaches to life is a big part of how it works. This is not a religious movement at all. Religion has rules. Spirituality has only guidelines and suggestions. The person is free to find their own way looking only to live by spiritual principals instead of their previous personality. The true beauty of this process is you get better in spite of yourself. You simply follow the steps and changes within happen. Even those around you, like friends and family, will notice a difference. It seems that once we address the spiritual sickness within (because we are spiritual beings) we straighten out mentally and physically. Over the last 38 years, I have had wondrous experiences watching people get their lives and families back. So if you're in trouble because of your drinking this guide will help you understand the problem and give you (or a friend) some real options if you wish to make a change. I wish the best for you and I hope I can be of service if needed. Anonymous Guest