Going thru this journey of life you are programmed to walk right to like a certain sex. To always be your best. You always have to maintain a certain image to be accepted by others You are taught to fit in to be liked. Be noticed but dont be too noticed. Always try to get the prettiest girl, dance the best. Dont embarrass the parents with doing stupid stuff. Pay attention to your teachers get a good job make everyone proud, dont make a fool of yourself. I was always the talker my bro was the quiet one, I always tried to get away with anything I could, never respected the rules but there are always consequences to taking the short cut. We can go through so much of our lives longing to be someone else Drugs, Alcohol and other mood changing champions make us accept our demons, until we come down. I have learned that drugs and alcohol do not have feetthey dont come to us. We march to them. The million-dollar question is WHY? The hard headed ones never learn they have to be totally defeated to realize there is a better way. This book will relate to many that have been convinced they needed to live by everyone other than who they really are in their heart. Our determination to please those around us, allows us to not please NUMBER ONE. YOU.